It’s surprising that many of us were never taught to nurture our own voices. We often grow up believing our voice should conform to someone else’s expectations. Yet, we have the agency to disagree with any teacher or authority figure who tries to alter our authentic sound. This is why finding the right teacher is essential—they should guide and empower you, helping you unlock your unique voice, not reshape it. The wrong teacher can do more than harm your voice; they can undermine your mental health by chipping away at your confidence or making you feel like your voice isn’t valid. The right teacher, however, can transform your relationship with your voice, helping you feel heard in every sense.
Here are a few reminders:
You have the power to disagree with any teacher who limits or tries to change your voice. Remember, you can always find a new teacher who listens to your goals and respects your decisions.
You deserve a teacher who celebrates every vocal win, no matter how small. Progress is progress.
You should feel safe enough where you can advocate for yourself. Trust your instincts, express your concerns, and make decisions that align with your voice and goals.
With gratitude,
T
